Things Boundaries Are Allowed to Do (An Incomplete List)

Things Boundaries Are Allowed to Do (An Incomplete List) is a nonfiction work examining the role of boundaries in situations involving power, care, and responsibility. The book presents boundaries as self-imposed limits that protect dignity, reduce harm, and make relationships safer-particularly where vulnerability is present.

Written for adults in leadership, caregiving, educational, and faith-based roles, the book explores how boundaries function before harm occurs, not only after it has been identified. Through clear explanations and practical examples, it addresses common misunderstandings about consent, responsibility, visibility, and access, emphasizing prevention, stewardship, and accountability rather than suspicion or intent.

This title is appropriate for use in churches, schools, counseling contexts, and other institutions seeking a thoughtful, trauma-informed framework for discussing boundaries without relying on fear-based or punitive approaches. It is designed as a formation and training resource and does not replace organizational policy or legal requirements.