In His Grace

For women experiencing the shame and secrecy that often accompanies sexual betrayal, Debra Wallace points them towards hope, healing, and embracing their worth. Her own experience of a husband's same-sex betrayal caused her to question her faith, blame herself, and believe lies regarding her value.

Debra presents a simple yet profound ten-chapter book revealing what helped her heal and topics necessary for moving forward after sexual betrayal.
In His Grace interweaves personal stories and scriptures, including chapters on questioning God, grounding techniques, identity, the four 'C's", seeking support, triggers, broken trust, abuse, establishing boundaries, healthy detachment, grief, forgiveness, and self-care to maximize growth and healing.

For those believing "life is over" after betrayal, Debra's example proves them wrong. One can and will experience joy again, whether a marriage survives or not.
APSATS trained, Debra gently guides, assisting the hurting wife with a trauma informed approach, pointing them to Jesus, the ultimate healer. As a writer, mentor, and peer group facilitator, having walked in betrayal trauma shoes herself, she gives women a voice when theirs is lost, an empathetic ear when others don't understand, and a heart that hugs weary souls on a recovery journey that often feels like an emotional roller coaster. Equipping others in their transformational process, she is passionate about ensuring no one walks this road alone.

Excellent read for the woman experiencing betrayal, as well as for friends, family, and clergy who desire to express empathy, understanding, support and encouragement amid their loved one's trauma.