Honey, It Is You

What if the person you are envying isn't the problem at all?

Envy has a way of hiding in plain sight. It can sound like criticism, feel like irritation, and show up as comparison, resentment, competition, or that quiet voice asking, Why not me?

We're often taught that envy is something ugly-something to deny, bury, or be ashamed of. But hiding it doesn't heal it.

In Honey, It Is You, Lesley D. Nurse turns the mirror inward with compassion, humor, and the kind of honesty that doesn't let you hide from yourself.

What if envy isn't proof that something is wrong with you? What if it is information-a signal pointing toward the part of your own life that feels overlooked, threatened, unfulfilled, or ready for more?

Through candid conversation, relatable scenarios, guided exercises, and personal reflection, Honey, It Is You helps you:

This isn't about pretending you will never feel jealous again. It is about becoming honest enough to ask why-and compassionate enough with yourself to do something meaningful with the answer.

Someone else's beauty, success, happiness, love, or opportunity does not diminish what is possible for you.

Their life was never the assignment.Yours is.

This revised and expanded Second Edition includes additional reflection exercises and dedicated journal pages for continued personal exploration.