Finding Tomorrow

"e;Through Sharalyn's unflinching honesty, we come to understand that grief is not a dead end,but a radical opening. It strips away illusion, burns through our defences, and delivers us tothe edges of everything we thought we knew about love, life, and death. It leads us intoa realm of radical love, radical acceptance, and the most radical truth of all: the possibilityof a living relationship with the dead. Her story is a gift for anyone who has grieved, who has loved and lost. It is a hand held outacross the abyss a quiet, fierce reminder that in the deepest chambers of grief lies a truth:love doesn t die. It transforms. And so can we. Sarah TolmieLife & Love Holistic Community CareCelebrant & Sacred Deathcare PractitionerA mother s journey through unbearable loss and grief to finding understanding,forgiveness and transformation. I didn t know how I was going to survive Ryan s death, or at times even if I wanted to. Ididn t think I could do now, let alone tomorrow. Some days just one breath at a time wasall I could manage, but I knew that to make sense of it I needed to be changed. I needed mylife to be different, somehow, and I needed to open to the possibilities of a new way of beingin relationship with him. I needed to understand what happened, why, and how we couldboth be transformed by his life, and his death. It has been a challenging and often confrontingjourney, but I am so grateful to Ryan for his teaching and for the amazing gifts that he hasgiven me along the way.